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Is your sweet kitten biting you? Why this happens and how to stop it

Kitten lying on back biting owners finger
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Is your usually adorable kitten biting you for no apparent reason? Are you confused as to why this is happening and how to get them to stop? Well, rest assured, you’ll find all the information you need right here to help you put a stop to your body being used as your feline friend’s very own chew toy. 

We bet that welcoming your little one into your home was an exciting day for you. No doubt you stocked up on the best kitten food, invested in a cozy bed for them, picked up a range of exciting toys for them to play with and spent ages getting them all settled in. And how do they repay your kindness? By trying to gnaw off your limbs! 

But rest assured, your kitten isn’t deliberately trying to hurt you or be naughty, biting is very normal behavior for these youngsters and kitten training can take some time so don’t lose heart. 

Kittens bite for many reasons, but if you find that they’re doing this on an ongoing basis it important to learn some effective methods to enable you to set limits with your little ball of fluff. Below, we talk you through why your kitten may be biting and how you can put a stop to it.

Why is your kitten biting you?

When kittens are with their littermates, biting each other while they’re playing and cuddling is very normal behavior. Once you’ve welcomed the newest addition to your family into your home, there are several reasons why they may continue to bite, even though they are no longer with their brothers and sisters.

1. They’re exploring their world

Just like puppies, kittens explore their world using their mouths. This is how they interact with their surroundings and learn about their new environment. Biting is also part of the instinctive hunting skills that all kittens have inside of them and so it’s normal for them to bite while chasing, pouncing, play-hunting and play-fighting.

2. Play aggression

Rough play is basically your kitten practicing for when they’re an adult when they may need to use their chase and catch prey drive. Dr. Nicholas Dodman (opens in new tab), professor and clinical behaviorist at Tufts University College of Veterinary Medicine, explains: 

“Kittens are adorable, but when they are around four months of age, a dark side usually emerges – a side that involves seemingly diabolical aggression,” Dodman says. “As troubling as the attacks can be, play aggression is a normal part of kittens’ development.”

Dodman says that your kitten biting you has nothing to do with wanting to hurt you. Instead, they’re simply trying to gain those valuable hunting skills that they’d be reliant on if they were in the wild.

3. They want attention

Your kitten may give you a little nip, known as a ‘love bite’ in order to demand your attention. Kitten’s actually see it as a fun game when they playfully bite you and get a reaction and unfortunately we humans can unknowingly reinforce this mode of attention by giving them the reaction they’re looking for. 

4. Teething time

Between the ages of three to six months, you’re going to want to have a supply of the best kitten teething toys on hand as those baby gnashers start to fall out and give way to adult chompers. During these few months, you may notice an increase in biting behavior as your kitten seeks to soothe their sore gums - teething toys can help you redirect this behavior onto a more appropriate object.

5. They’re communicating a boundary

Sometimes, your kitten biting you will be their way of letting you know that they don’t want to be handled or they’ve had enough petting for the time being. Always respect your kitten’s limits and don’t try to force them to interact with you if they don’t want to.

How to get your kitten to stop biting

Kitten biting finger

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While you may not have a lot of control over the reasons your kitten is biting, where you can take charge is in teaching them that this behavior isn’t acceptable. There are five main ways you can do this, let’s take a look at each one in detail:

1. Redirect their attention towards toys

Part of the reason your kitten loves biting you so much is because they absolutely adore playing and for the most part, biting really is just one big game to them. In order to teach polite play habits, what you’re going to need to do is to redirect their attention towards a more appropriate object.

The best kitten toys are your best friend when it comes to doing this and we recommend you invest in several different types to keep your kitten interested and entertained. Try wand toys that you can move about, soft toys that they can paw at, and interactive toys, such as lasers and circuit tracks with balls, to see which sort of playthings appeal to your kitten the most.

2. Use your voice

An easy and effective way to put a stop to biting is to use your voice to teach your kitten that you don’t like being bitten. There are two methods you can use to do this, the first of these is the hissing method. This is super effective for younger kittens because a hiss mimics the sound their mother would make when she was displeased - simply make a sharp hissing sound whenever your kitten bites you.

The second method is the ‘ouch’ method. When your kitten bites you, let out a loud ‘ouch’ right away. This will cause your kitten to freeze and when you have their attention, you can gently pull your hand away. This is best used on kittens aged six months or over - younger kittens tend to respond better to the hiss method. 

3. Stop play

Your kitten needs to learn that if they bite, there’s a negative consequence and in this case, that means that playtime or petting time needs to come to an end. When you stop any form of positive attention, your kitten learns that biting equals not being able to get what they want and so they’ll soon quit doing this if there’s no reward in it for them.

Every time your kitten bites you, immediately stop playing with them or petting with them. Only resume what you’re doing when your kitten is calm and you have their attention. Continue to repeat the stop method until your kitten learns that if they want to bond with you, they need to play nice.

4. Praise your kitten

Positive reinforcement is always going to be so much more effective than negative reinforcement, so every time your kitten mouths you without using their teeth or plays with you without biting or lets you pet them without playfully trying to attack you, make sure you give them lots of verbal praise. The best kitten treats can also be a great weapon to have in your arsenal - you’ll be amazed at how quickly our pets can master things when there’s food involved! 

5. Be consistent

Learning how to train and socialize a kitten takes patience and perseverance, but you will see great results as long as you’re consistent. Make sure that you hold firm and continue to reinforce the behavior you do want to see, while ignoring the behavior you don’t. If there are other adults in the home, make sure that everyone is on the same page when it comes to training so that your kitten knows that all their humans are singing from the same song sheet. 

Kathryn is a freelance writer who has spent the past two years dividing her writing time between her two great loves - pets and health and wellness. When she’s not busy crafting the perfect sentence for her features, buying guides and news pieces, she can be found hanging out with one very mischievous Cocker Spaniel, drinking copious amounts of Jasmine tea and attempting to set numerous world records for the longest ever FaceTime calls with her family back home in NZ.