Cats can be quite tricky to read sometimes, especially because they don’t wear their emotions on their faces as much as dogs.
That’s why it’s important to know what your cat is trying to say with their body language. That way, you can better meet their needs, ensure that they’re a happy and healthy cat, and put your own mind at rest too because you’ll be able to suss out what they’re thinking!
Fortunately, certified cat behaviorist Saba Sayyed, or A Cat Behaviourist, has explained everything we need to know in a new post – let’s take a look at a few key body language indicators.
1. Tail flicking
Sayyed explains that, while most cat parents think it indicates attitude or annoyance, it can actually be a sign of overstimulation, anxiety, or uncertainty – particularly if it’s low or quick.
What you can do is give your kitty some space, and let them unwind for a little while before you engage with them again.
2. Slow blinking
It might look as though your cat wants to fall asleep, but slow blinking is actually one of the best signals your cat can give you. It shows you that they trust you and feel an emotional connection.
Return the gesture by blinking slowly back at them. It’s the feline equivalent of saying ‘I love you’.
3. Ears pointing sideways
If your cat's ears are pointed sideways, your cat might be unsure about the situation, on alert, or perhaps processing sounds or environments they’re unfamiliar with. It doesn’t mean that they’re relaxed, which is a fairly common misconception.
Because your cat might be feeling a bit on edge, simply stay calm and give them some space. Try to reduce the stimulation in the environment if you can, too.
4. Tucking paws and tail
Why do cats loaf? Well, it can mean that they’re feeling relaxed. But that’s not always the case. It can mean that they’re overwhelmed and shutting down emotionally.
Just as you might if your cat’s ears are pointing sideways, give them some space, and ensure they aren’t too overstimulated or affected by the noise or overcrowding in their environment.
5. Exposing their belly
We all know a dog who loves a belly rub, but is your cat inviting you to pet them there? In fact, when your cat exposes their stomach, they’re showing you that they feel safe – cats in this position feel vulnerable, so it means they trust you.
While some cats do enjoy belly rubs, you might want to simply leave them be.
Read next: How cats show affection or signs a cat is happy
