Doggy play date: How to set one up and what to expect

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Doggy play dates are a great way to help your pup to socialize and keep them happy through mental and physical stimulation. Plus, there's nothing more fun than watching them have a fantastic game with a four-legged friend.

You might think planning a doggy play date is about meeting up with friends and letting your doggos run free together off the leash, but there's more to it than that. As a qualified dog behaviorist, I've worked with a few dogs that have developed behavioral problems from poorly managed doggy play dates. 

A few simple guidelines for organizing a doggy play date can transform a potentially stressful situation for your dog into the best thing ever for them.

Doggy play dates can help your dog learn how to manage their behavior, develop character, and understand the unwritten doggy rules of playing with other furry friends. They may even enjoy sharing the best dog toys if they really hit it off.

This in-depth feature will help you plan the pawfect doggy play date so your fur baby has fun and finds a new play pal. The step-by-step guide will help you become the perfect matchmaker for your furry friend so he learns to play safely, burn off some energy and have lots of fun. 

What is a doggy play date?

A doggy play date is an organized get-together with another dog or a group of dogs. The dogs are usually off the leash in a secure area where they can run, play, sniff and explore their surroundings with their new buddies. 

The success of a doggy play date depends on many factors, including matching your dog's playmates so they are of similar energy, size and temperament. You might like to read our guide on how to introduce a new dog.

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How to prepare for a doggy play date

Before you meet up with your doggy friends for the play date, there are a few provisions to ensure it goes well: 

1. Plan the play date in a secure location: You could hire a secure field where your dogs cannot escape. A public dog park may not be ideal because you do not know the other dogs' temperaments. 

2. Match your dog with suitable pals: A play date with a great dane is unlikely to be the best match if your dog is a chihuahua. The other dogs must be friendly and have a similar energy to your dog. 

3. Make sure your dog is vaccinated: To help prevent the risk of disease, make sure your pup has his shots. You can learn more about vaccinations with our feature on puppy shots.

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4. Ensure you have insurance: Your dog may get excited playing with his furry friends. Accidents happen, so it's best to have insurance to protect your dog in the case of injury. We researched the best pet insurance and provided an in-depth guide.

5. Introduce the dogs on the leash: If possible, walk the dogs around the location on the leash. Let them sniff each other and walk side by side. They will probably start initiating play. 

6. Monitor the doggy play date: Watch the dogs playing together and notice if your dog is stressed, over-excited or getting bullied by another dog.

7. Give your dog occasional time out: Let your dog take regular water breaks or, if it’s warm, place him in the shade to cool down.

Tips for a fun doggy play date

A doggy play date may be an opportunity for you to catch up with friends, too. Still, it's essential to notice if the play date is getting out of hand or if your dog is no longer enjoying time with his new friends. 

You can make the doggy play date even more fun by creating an exciting dog play area and adding the best puppy toys

1. Set up water games: Use a child's paddling pool or a sprinkler. The dogs will enjoy leaping in and out of a pool or dashing through a sprinkler to cool down.

2. Add toys: If none of the dogs have resource issues, add some toys to the play date, such as a large tug toy, which dogs love.

3. Throw a frisbee or ball: Encourage the dogs to play with toys together if they play nicely.

4. Book a location with agility equipment: An agility course stimulates your dog's mind and body. Once you introduce the dogs to the agility equipment, they usually start jumping on it and running through tunnels without your guidance.

5. Pay attention to the dogs' body language: Let them get to know each other in their own time. Observe any anxiety or aggression developing or if play turns into fighting. Read our in-depth guides if you're unsure about dog body language and dog play fighting.

Two Labradors playing with a toy together

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Why should I socialize my dog?

Socializing your dog helps to build their confidence. An unsocialized dog does not know how to interact with other dogs, people, and their environment. A lack of socialization with other dogs can cause anxiety and lead to reactivity in dogs.  

A dog in a state of hypervigilance is not a happy dog. They are physically tense and do not understand how to play with other dogs because they misread body language. 

If you want more tips about playtime with a dog, you can learn how to play with a dog here.  For more play ideas, check out our feature on how to play hide and seek with your dog

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Jan Barley
Dog Behaviorist & Writer

Jan is a dog behaviorist and writer living in the Cotswolds, UK. She has shared her life with dogs for over fifty years and is fascinated by behavior. She enjoys helping people better understand their dogs to develop a deep bond and enjoy time together. Jan particularly enjoys working with impulsive and reactive dogs as her legacy from helping Poppy, her rescue Weimaraner cross overcome fear reactivity.